I grew up on the East Coast of the US where I earned a Bachelor's degree from Boston University and a Master's degree from Lesley College in Boston. Toronto is the city that I love and where I make my home.Prior to becoming a matchmaker, I spent over 12 years working at the executive level in the marketing industry, building highly effective teams and partnerships.“The reason behind the confidence problem nowadays is that men are not clear on their role anymore. Men overwhelm themselves with what it would take to please this spectacular woman.So you’re not really sure what do to when it comes to dating? Our dating consultants have seen it all, and aren’t afraid to tell it like it is.I have a positive, spiritual approach to life and believe that all things are possible.Since 2003, when I launched Perfect Partners, I've interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and have introduced over 4,500 couples.Entering any potentially hostile territory is best undertaken with all available intel.Consider Hart as an inside informant, a whistleblower, a cartographer of female sensibilities. “A lot of men don’t know how to engage in a conversation with a woman, particularly if they’re really attracted to her. I scale it back and get them interacting with women.” This famous tongue-tied, bumbling idiocy is rooted in an all-too-pervasive weakness woven deep into the XY chromosome, she says.
Men really hold on to the feeling that resonated in their body of being rejected and not feeling safe.” Soothing such wounds involves building an arsenal of dating techniques — or “flirting tools” — such as properly conceived and delivered compliments (her clothes, not her boobs), inquiring questions about matters of interest to her and, perhaps most importantly, the appearance of quiet, unflappable confidence.
Personal dating consultants have emerged as an increasingly popular phenomenon in the days of soulless pickup regimens, stratospheric divorce rates and mating rituals that have everyone looking and no one finding.
When online dating frustrations prompt the need to heave a computer out the window, when another 0 night at the singles bars leaves that lingering feeling of exploitation, people like Hart offer the promise of a different way.
You don’t know what you’re doing right, but you’re sure as hell that you’re probably doing it wrong. We’ll let you know what you might be doing that isn’t putting your best foot forward (or maybe putting it in your mouth) and we’ll help you get better at dating in person and online.
Dating/Relationship Coaching – Have you been single for a while now? Toronto Wingwoman works with many people to help them answer these questions.